The change depends on so many things: our families contribute so much to how we change in the future. At home is where we have been molded ever since to the kind of people that we are now. Our home and family is our biggest influence. Then we have many friends the entire time who may be our neighbors, classmates or simply close relatives. They also make a big impact in our lives. The surroundings or the neigborhood also makes a scene in our growing up, and the schools offer great guidance and teachings along the way. We change to the kind of people that we are now because of our choices in life and the many influences that are making the biggest impact. We don't remain the same for a long time because we have to get better for what is found in our very nature is the pursuit of perfection. But oftentimes also, there are so many people who change from good to bad, and from bad to worse. They must have a bad growing-up years that's why they ended up that way. But still, they can always change again to what is considered right and good which is to change for good or better. Everytime we change, we become new people, with new strengths, new weaknesses, new goals, new pursuits, new tastes and so on. What we have before don't necessarily remain for we no longer want them. Even relationships are not spared in the course of this change. Friendships get sour, we ignore or overlook friends for we want new ones to take their place. We no longer care about our crushes, for our tastes in relationships have changed. We no longer spend time with close friends before because we don't feel them anymore. It's also possible that we already become arrogant because of some achievement that's why in return, people don't like us anymore. We may not be behaving like we used to and already doing a lot of vices like drinking, smoking and worse, doing drugs. It's seldom that people change for the better and it's often from good to bad, or from bad to worse. Fortunate are those who change for the better for that is the ideal change for everyone. But there are also a lot of things that will remain forever in our lives. Our families will always be there though there maybe a lot of disaggrements or quarrels from time to time. But still family can't be replaced by anyone and will make us incomplete without them. There maybe some friends who will be our friends forever no matter where our lives or carreers take us, or no matter what we become in the future. We don't totally change, not our entire being. Just some parts in us will be changed because those parts need to get better. We have to remember that to change is always positive as long as it always should be for the betterment of our selves. We can forget about our friends only when they are bad influences who make us stray from the right way. But if they are true friends who are there for us anytime we need them, when they make good advice, and when they help us become better people, then we have to keep them.
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