and is the highest good in the world.
And when two people possess
and uphold the love they have for each other,
they are the most fortunate couple in the world.
They will understand each other's weaknesses
and praise each other's strengths.
They will surrender each other to love
and their joy will be unending.
They will become the envy of others
and they will live happily ever after.
When one is poor and the other is rich,
they will not be affected
for their heart is already subdued by love
and noone and nothing else can challenge.
For them rags and riches are the same
and the poor and the rich
don't have to place a wall between them
when it comes to love and loving.
And that in falling in love,
all is fair and equal
and of the same level.
But two people falling in love
doesn't only concern the both of them,
but also their families and friends around them.
The concern is always there for both
and they can't just ignore it
because all the family wishes
is a happy and prosperous life,
and free from worries and hardships.
And friends wish the same things for both.
The consent of the parents and siblings
and added with those coming from friends
are huge blessings for the couple,
all their opinions matter so much.
There's no way not to listen
to what they all say about the relationship.
The advice and the counsel are very important
and those should be taken into consideration.
And at this point,
whether they like it or not,
and money is oftentimes
considered by families
to be a big deal on the relationship.
Everyone around the couple
will try to decide with everyone else
when it comes to handling finances
between the two of them.
It would be a fortunate situation for both
when they have the same financial status,
but it would never be the same
when one is richer than the other
and most especially
when the girl is the richer one.
For the people around them
love between the couple
would never be enough grounds
for the relationship to flourish,
and that there should be an agreement
before the families' consents are given.
This has been the reality in this world
for years and years already
that parents tend to meddle
in the relationships of their children
to make sure no one can take advantage
of the riches of the other
whoever that may be.
Rich families do that
for they don't want their children
to fall into the wrong guy or girl,
and in this case,
the wrong guy or girl
is the poor one who doesn't have enough
and who can't contribute financially.
But being in love with someone
makes one do something extraordinary.
When money is involved in the relationship
and when financial stability or status is considered,
one has to be humble and emotionally strong enough
to face the challenge.
Pride should be shattered at the beginning,
and the ego should never be there.
And to prove the guy's love,
he should be the one to initiate
the right move to prove
that his intentions to the girl is pure and faultless,
and never about the money or riches.
He should be the one to propose
to sign a prenuptial agreement
that he can never touch or spend
whatever the girl has
and that all he wants is to love her
and spend his life with her and nothing else.
This maybe very hard to do
because the guy feels humiliated
and looked down in the first place,
but if love is really there,
what's wrong with doing it anyway?
It's the right thing to do
and it's the best thing to prove
that his love is true.
A poor guy in love with a rich girl
will do everything to provide for her
and will work harder than ever
because he is inspired.
He will not be ashamed
of his humble existence
and he will not be embarrassed
if in the first place
he is not liked or accepted by the girl's family.
But because of the love he felt for her,
he is determined to be successful
in his own endeavors
and in his financial undertakings.
And even if he fails over and over,
he will not stop until he succeeds.
And when that time comes,
he will be worthy to be accepted
by the girl's family
and will be welcomed with open arms.
And the same is true for a poor girl
who has a richer man in her life.
The guy's family will treat her low,
and will look down on her
until such time that she proves
she is not after the money at all,
and her love for the guy is evident
for the whole family.
She should never be disappointed
or frustrated in any way
and should remain humble and forgiving
for all the treatment she receives.
Prenuptial agreement before marriage
may be rude or ruthless
but in a lot of ways,
it is considered
especially when relationships
tend to get sour after many years
and temptations abound
for both the man and the woman.
Separations or divorces happen
in many marriages
that is why prenuptial agreement
will play a huge part in the process.
There are relationships that started wrong
or were not meant to be in the beginning,
but somehow managed to end up in marriage.
But later on in life,
the marriage vows are broken,
and there's nothing left to do
but to end the marriage
and the husband and wife
go their separate ways.
With the prenuptial agreement signed already,
there's not so much to worry about
for both the couple
for every property and money
is already taken care of.
There's nothing too hard to do
when one is in love,
and there's no humiliation or embarrassment
in signing up a prenuptial agreement.
As a matter of fact,
one is doing a great job
for proving to everyone around
that his or her intentions are nothing but love
and he or she cares about the relationship so much.