A Househusband Is Much Better Than A Housewife

Househusband

A househusband is a married man who takes care of the household chores, like cleaning the house, doing the laundry, cooking and taking care of the kids while his wife has a job somewhere and thus, she is the one financially supporting the family. 

The househusband is unemployed 
that's why he stays at home 
taking care of the children 
and the house as well. 
This may not be the ideal set up of a family, 
and there are a lot of negative opinions 
from men who are the ones 
looking for a paying job. 
They say this is embarassing, 
putting men to lower places in society. 
And worse, 
these men are regarded as not real men 
for they're doing things 
commonly done by women only.


First, 
let us state the instances 
why married or family men are unemployed 
and become housebands. 
We have to note clearly 
that finding a job is not that easy 
even when one already earned a college degree, 
and how much more for those 
who have not gone to college 
or those who haven't finished 
even high school. 
And women tend to find jobs faster 
because they are more articulate 
during interviews. 
And there are a lot of companies 
that hire almost entirely women 
especially those who are
into beauty and skin care products. 
They mostly give financial opportunities to women only.


But for a lot of reasons, 
being a househusband 
benefits the family in so many ways 
unknown to many. 
Let's break it down now. 
Being a househusband is  not easy, 
and it enables men 
to swallow their pride right away.
 Say, cleaning the house. 
It takes not only minutes but hours to do 
for it involves a lot of sweeping, 
wiping, arranging things etc. 
Doing the laundry is a tiresome chore 
especially when it involves the bed sheets, 
the curtains, the coverings on the sofa 
and many more. 
Cooking takes a lot of time too, 
and the househusband should still clean up
 after the cooking is done. 
And last but not least, 
taking care of the kids. 
They maybe cuddly and cute, 
but they give so much headache. 
They are carefree and always playing, 
unmindful of the mess 
and the clutter around the house. 
And being the grown up one, 
the father, the family man,
 the househusband, 
patience is the must-have virtue this time. 
And even if there is only one kid around, 
still the energy, 
the effort and the time are the same. 


And finally, 
doing all of those things at the same time, 
every single day, 
doesn't it make anybody wonder 
how a housewife could do such things alone? 
The wife is physically weaker 
than the husband, 
and suppose she does them all alone, 
will the working husband not think about
 switching careers with his wife for obviously,
 men can do them better? 
These take a toll on the health 
and well being of the woman. 
She maybe a good housewife 
and good mother, 
but she can hardly be a good wife to her husband. 
Her energy and time are already spent 
on being a housewife. 
And most of the time, 
the housewife becomes frail, 
unpretty and unattractive in no time 
and this can pose a bigger problem in the future. 
She will become undesirable to her husband 
and he maybe tempted to look 
for desirable women around 
when he gets the chance. 
It will be a sad fate for the family. 
But it's very different most of the time with househusbands.
 They become stronger and have a fitter body 
because they have more work to do 
and move around so much more
 compared to those who are in the office 
having a very much sedentary lifestyle. 
Having to do all those things around the house
 is a workout or fitness routine for men, 
but it's too much and definitely 
not good for women.


Men who are househusbands 
should be proud about themselves 
for they are doing a very noble job 
for the family. 
They are making a big difference
 on the opinions about men
 doing women's jobs, 
and they should be congratulated 
for most men are not known 
to be involved about things 
pertaining to the household. 
They are doing no less than the extraordinary!