The househusband is unemployed
that's why he stays at home
taking care of the children
and the house as well.
This may not be the ideal set up of a family,
and there are a lot of negative opinions
from men who are the ones
looking for a paying job.
They say this is embarassing,
putting men to lower places in society.
these men are regarded as not real men
for they're doing things
commonly done by women only.
let us state the instances
why married or family men are unemployed
and become housebands.
We have to note clearly
that finding a job is not that easy
even when one already earned a college degree,
and how much more for those
who have not gone to college
or those who haven't finished
even high school.
And women tend to find jobs faster
because they are more articulate
And there are a lot of companies
that hire almost entirely women
especially those who are
into beauty and skin care products.
They mostly give financial opportunities to women only.
But for a lot of reasons,
being a househusband
benefits the family in so many ways
unknown to many.
Let's break it down now.
Being a househusband is not easy,
and it enables men
to swallow their pride right away.
Say, cleaning the house.
It takes not only minutes but hours to do
for it involves a lot of sweeping,
wiping, arranging things etc.
Doing the laundry is a tiresome chore
especially when it involves the bed sheets,
the curtains, the coverings on the sofa
and many more.
Cooking takes a lot of time too,
and the househusband should still clean up
after the cooking is done.
And last but not least,
taking care of the kids.
They maybe cuddly and cute,
but they give so much headache.
They are carefree and always playing,
unmindful of the mess
and the clutter around the house.
And being the grown up one,
the father, the family man,
patience is the must-have virtue this time.
And even if there is only one kid around,
still the energy,
the effort and the time are the same.
doing all of those things at the same time,
every single day,
doesn't it make anybody wonder
how a housewife could do such things alone?
The wife is physically weaker
than the husband,
and suppose she does them all alone,
will the working husband not think about
switching careers with his wife for obviously,
men can do them better?
These take a toll on the health
and well being of the woman.
She maybe a good housewife
and good mother,
but she can hardly be a good wife to her husband.
Her energy and time are already spent
on being a housewife.
And most of the time,
the housewife becomes frail,
unpretty and unattractive in no time
and this can pose a bigger problem in the future.
She will become undesirable to her husband
and he maybe tempted to look
for desirable women around
when he gets the chance.
It will be a sad fate for the family.
But it's very different most of the time with househusbands.
They become stronger and have a fitter body
because they have more work to do
and move around so much more
compared to those who are in the office
having a very much sedentary lifestyle.
Having to do all those things around the house
is a workout or fitness routine for men,
but it's too much and definitely
not good for women.
Men who are househusbands
should be proud about themselves
for they are doing a very noble job
for the family.
They are making a big difference
on the opinions about men
doing women's jobs,
and they should be congratulated
for most men are not known
to be involved about things
pertaining to the household.
They are doing no less than the extraordinary!
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