The househusband is unemployed that's why he stays at home taking care of the children and the house as well. This may not be the ideal set up of a family, and there are a lot of negative opinions from men who are the ones looking for a paying job. They say this is embarassing, putting men to lower places in society. And worse, these men are regarded as not real men for they're doing things commonly done by women only. First, let us state the instances why married or family men are unemployed and become housebands. We have to note clearly that finding a job is not that easy even when one already earned a college degree, and how much more for those who have not gone to college or those who haven't finished even high school. And women tend to find jobs faster because they are more articulate during interviews. And there are a lot of companies that hire almost entirely women especially those who are into beauty and skin care products. They mostly give financial opportunities to women only. But for a lot of reasons, being a househusband benefits the family in so many ways unknown to many. Let's break it down now. Being a househusband is not easy, and it enables men to swallow their pride right away. Say, cleaning the house. It takes not only minutes but hours to do for it involves a lot of sweeping, wiping, arranging things etc. Doing the laundry is a tiresome chore especially when it involves the bed sheets, the curtains, the coverings on the sofa and many more. Cooking takes a lot of time too, and the househusband should still clean up after the cooking is done. And last but not least, taking care of the kids. They maybe cuddly and cute, but they give so much headache. They are carefree and always playing, unmindful of the mess and the clutter around the house. And being the grown up one, the father, the family man, the househusband, patience is the must-have virtue this time. And even if there is only one kid around, still the energy, the effort and the time are the same. And finally, doing all of those things at the same time, every single day, doesn't it make anybody wonder how a housewife could do such things alone? The wife is physically weaker than the husband, and suppose she does them all alone, will the working husband not think about switching careers with his wife for obviously, men can do them better? These take a toll on the health and well being of the woman. She maybe a good housewife and good mother, but she can hardly be a good wife to her husband. Her energy and time are already spent on being a housewife. And most of the time, the housewife becomes frail, unpretty and unattractive in no time and this can pose a bigger problem in the future. She will become undesirable to her husband and he maybe tempted to look for desirable women around when he gets the chance. It will be a sad fate for the family. But it's very different most of the time with househusbands. They become stronger and have a fitter body because they have more work to do and move around so much more compared to those who are in the office having a very much sedentary lifestyle. Having to do all those things around the house is a workout or fitness routine for men, but it's too much and definitely not good for women. Men who are househusbands should be proud about themselves for they are doing a very noble job for the family. They are making a big difference on the opinions about men doing women's jobs, and they should be congratulated for most men are not known to be involved about things pertaining to the household. They are doing no less than the extraordinary!
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