Being Bossy, Overbearing Or Being Harsh And Cruel

Harsh And Cruel Boss

Like a tyrant, like a dictator,  and being harsh and cruel,  forceful and unfair in all ways to get a point across or to command respect is nothing but being less competent and less effective and not capable of doing it on his own. It's showing less or no standards at all.

A boss who regularly shouts at his subordinates and workers
is no different than someone uneducated or foolish.
Whenever he commands in a normal, light way,
nobody listens to him 
and nobody pays attention
that's why he gets mad and shouts.
He doesn't realize that he is not looked up to
as high as he wants.
He placed himself so high 
that he never sees his faulty, imperfect self.
He is blind to the truth
that he doesn't deserve to be a boss.
He sets high standards for others to uphold
but he himself doesn't have any at all
and if he ever has,
they are still poor standards.

Anyone who wants to be respected and esteemed
and who wants anyone else to look up to him
must be equipped with no less than high standards,
and these standards must be about brains, beauty and health
and if possible,
include social, emotional, spiritual and financial.
In this modern world,
exceptional brains, great looks and good health
are regarded as very high standards 
especially when all three are present at the same time.
And in this material world,
financial will always be the highest standard
even though it's not a standard at all or ever
especially if it's done illegally or indecently.
Only those who worship money think so.
But the true standards in this world
are those that involve virtues, morality and goodness.
Kindness, humility, patience 
and all the good traits the human heart possesses
are always and forever be the ideal standards
that please not only humans
but more importantly, God.
People who own such can command respect so much more 
than those with brains, beauty, health and riches combined.
Nothing beats a good-natured boss
who keeps his foot on the ground
with nothing in his mind
but the welfare of his workers
besides the profitability of the company.
Anyone who has high standards
will make a big impact to those lower to them,
making them follow orders with no hesitation. 
He is immediately idolized,
and his commands are always obeyed.
Guys like him don't have to raise 
their voices to be heard,
and even their whispers are loud enough.
Their few words equal a thousand orders
that will surely be followed.

But those who don't have the standards in themselves
always make a big effort to be listened.
Raising their voices as loud as they can
and acting as harsh and cruel as possible
are all they can think of 
when they want to lead, govern or rule.
Their actions are always considered an overkill
and they are not always successful. 
Employees, workers or subordinates 
have no respect for people
who are bossy, overbearing or a tyrant.
They only pretend to regard them high,
but their hearts don't allow them to.
Any boss must be aware 
that there's always the possibility 
that one of his workers may be more intelligent,
more competent or more capable than him
that's why he has to keep himself grounded
and he has to be humble every single time
or somebody will take his place in no time.
A boss is placed on top of everyone in the company
but doesn't deserve to be a boss
when he doesn't maintain the highest standards.
Same is true with the leader of a group or organization,
a ruler of a city or territory
or the highest official in the country.

And even if anyone becomes 
the highest one among all humans on earth,
he still has to remember
that God The Father Almighty
was, is and forever will be 
the highest one of all. 
No one can be equal to Him
or even close enough to share His greatness
even if somebody belongs to the gods.
All the gods maybe much higher beings than humans
but they are no rival to God The Father Almighty
who is, who was and who will forever be
the one and only true Supreme Being 
in all the vastness of the universe.