who find it hard to fall in love
or don't fall in love at all
for their hearts are stone-cold or dead.
And there are those who easily fall in love
because their hearts are soft as marshmallow.
and to present them in simple terms,
let us put them this way:
the harder the heart is,
the harder it is to fall in love.
The softer the heart is,
the easier it is to fall in love.
In love at first sight,
the person involved has the softest heart possible
for he falls in love in just one moment.
Even it seems unreal and happening only in dreams,
a lot of people believe in love at first sight.
It is also possible that this rare occurrence
involves past lives and past love.
Maybe the person who feels love at first sight
already fell for the other person in his past life
that's why in this present life
when the two of them meet for the first time,
he falls in love right away.
It's as if he continues where he left off in his past life.
And when two people feel love at first sight
or fall in love at first meeting,
then maybe they have already loved each other
in their past lives
or to say it better,
maybe they are soul mates
who are meant and destined for each other
ever since the world was created by God.
In most cases,
love doesn't develop in a day or two.
It takes time and patience
and knowing each other as deep as possible.
Accepting each other's weaknesses
and upholding each other's strengths
also contribute to the nourishment of love,
and so many other things.
And it's different with love at first sight.
You already did all those things in the past
that's why your love now is already in full bloom
and you feel it right away in a second.