that needs hard work,
second, third and zillion thoughts
and a thousand considerations.
It will be a union between two people
who are in love with each other
with God as the bond to keep them attached.
that should not be undone
no matter what the circumstances
for it involves God in the union.
Once the decision is made,
it marks the beginning of a new life
that is exciting and exhilarating for a couple,
and it's the start of saying good bye
to being single and alone.
The couple will have to cut down the time
they have to spend with friends
spend it together in planning for their family.
Planning a family
is like preparing for a long journey
with roads going up and down,
going left and right
that can never be avoided
but will keep the ralationship tighter and stronger
and at the same time,
will be spices for a flavorful relationship.
There will be obstacles along the way
that will test their patience
and temptations here and there
that will surely shake their integrity.
But the relationship should be built
on the foundation of love and God all throughout
so that it will last a lifetime.
Planning a family
is not only about the future of two people
but also of the children
who will be born out of the union.
The number of children depends on their agreement
and the capacity of the couple
with regard to their finances.
A child will cost so much emotions,
energy and money to raise
and much more with more children.
Even providing for a baby's needs
empties the couple's bank account.
And the older the child,
the more he is provided for his needs.
His food, clothing and everything else
most especially his education
are the basic needs parents responsible furnish.
Having children is part of family planning
will never be without them.
a male and a female in love and living together
can be considered a family already
and especially those unable to have children.
involves the birth and raising of a child or children,
male and female parents
must have vast knowledge
about how and when to make love
to avoid unwanted or untimely pregnancies.
Untimely, unwanted or unintended pregnancies
disrupts, stops or even alter
the plans of the couple about their future.
They can bruise or hurt the relationship
and change the course of their journey.
And those will take a toll on their emotions,
on their savings and on their energy.
There are a number of Family Planning Methods
for any couple to avail in their convenience
where they can choose the best that fits their lifestyles.
It will help them provide a bright future for their family
where every family member fairly has all his needs
and not one member deprived.
Planning a family is never a game
where two people can play in
for fun and entertainment
without anything to worry about.
There's a huge responsibility involved
along with maturity, devotion and seriousness.
Young people who are enjoying their youth
should remain single for more years
until the time is ripe to get married
when they have prepared enough
with regard to emotional, financial
and everything else about starting a family.
Once a family is formed,
it will be a point of no return for the couple.
At that point,
the couple will become one in heart and mind
where they travel through their new life in partnership.
Their individual properties and possessions
will belong to both already.
Each one shares what each other has.
Even when things get sour later on,
children will still matter to both parents
and their responsibilities will be for life.
That's why planning a family,
to say it frankly,
is never ever easy.