Planning a family is a huge endeavor
that needs hard work, second, third and zillion thoughts and a thousand considerations. It will be a union between two people who are in love with each other ​with God as the bond to keep them attached.
It's a calling that binds for life
that should not be undone no matter what the circumstances for it involves God in the union. Once the decision is made, it marks the beginning of a new life that is exciting and exhilarating for a couple, and it's the start of saying good bye to being single and alone. The couple will have to cut down the time they have to spend with friends and instead, spend it together in planning for their family. Planning a family ​is like preparing for a long journey with roads going up and down, going left and right that can never be avoided but will keep the ralationship tighter and stronger and at the same time, will be spices for a flavorful relationship. There will be obstacles along the way that will test their patience and temptations here and there that will surely shake their integrity. But the relationship should be built on the foundation of love and God all throughout so that it will last a lifetime. Planning a family is not only about the future of two people but also of the children who will be born out of the union. The number of children depends on their agreement and the capacity of the couple with regard to their finances. A child will cost so much emotions, energy and money to raise and much more with more children. Even providing for a baby's needs empties the couple's bank account. And the older the child, the more he is provided for his needs. His food, clothing and everything else most especially his education are the basic needs parents responsible furnish. Having children is part of family planning that oftentimes, will never be without them. Well, a male and a female in love and living together can be considered a family already and especially those unable to have children.
Since planning a family
involves the birth and raising of a child or children, male and female parents must have vast knowledge about how and when to make love to avoid unwanted or untimely pregnancies. Untimely, unwanted or unintended pregnancies disrupts, stops or even alter the plans of the couple about their future. They can bruise or hurt the relationship and change the course of their journey. And those will take a toll on their emotions, on their savings and on their energy. There are a number of Family Planning Methods for any couple to avail in their convenience where they can choose the best that fits their lifestyles. It will help them provide a bright future for their family where every family member fairly has all his needs and not one member deprived. Planning a family is never a game where two people can play in for fun and entertainment without anything to worry about. There's a huge responsibility involved along with maturity, devotion and seriousness. Young people who are enjoying their youth should remain single for more years until the time is ripe to get married when they have prepared enough with regard to emotional, financial and everything else about starting a family. Once a family is formed, it will be a point of no return for the couple. At that point, the couple will become one in heart and mind where they travel through their new life in partnership. Their individual properties and possessions will belong to both already. Each one shares what each other has. Even when things get sour later on, children will still matter to both parents and their responsibilities will be for life. That's why planning a family, to say it frankly, is never ever easy.
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