Love knows no boundaries,
and doesn't care about riches at all. It doesn't concern itself with what humans considered worldly wealth but is itself always in abundance of the good things ​that money can never buy or equal.
Love brings an unthink-of happiness and contentment
and is the highest good in the world. And when two people possess and uphold ​the love they have for each other, they are the most fortunate couple in the world. They will understand each other's weaknesses and praise each other's strengths. They will surrender each other to love and their joy will be unending. They will become the envy of others and they will live happily ever after. When one is poor and the other is rich, they will not be affected for their heart is already subdued by love and no one and nothing else can challenge. For them rags and riches are the same and the poor and the rich don't have to place a wall between them when it comes to love and loving. And that in falling in love, all is fair and equal and of the same level. But two people falling in love doesn't only concern the both of them, but also their families and friends around them. The concern is always there for both and they can't just ignore it because all the family wishes is a happy and prosperous life, and free from worries and hardships. And friends wish the same things for both. The consent of the parents and siblings and added with those coming from friends are huge blessings for the couple, and naturally, all their opinions matter so much. There's no way not to listen to what they all say about the relationship. The advice and the counsel are very important and those should be taken into consideration. And at this point, whether they like it or not, money matters, and money is oftentimes considered by families to be a big deal on the relationship. Everyone around the couple will try to decide with everyone else when it comes to handling finances between the two of them. It would be a fortunate situation for both when they have the same financial status, but it would never be the same when one is richer than the other and most especially when the girl is the richer one. For the people around them love between the couple would never be enough grounds for the relationship to flourish, and that there should be an agreement before the families' consents are given. This has been the reality in this world for years and years already that parents tend to meddle in the relationships of their children to make sure no one can take advantage of the riches of the other whoever that may be. Rich families do that for they don't want their children to fall into the wrong guy or girl, and in this case, the wrong guy or girl is the poor one who doesn't have enough and who can't contribute financially. But being in love with someone makes one do something extraordinary. When money is involved in the relationship and when financial stability or status is considered, one has to be humble and emotionally strong enough to face the challenge. Pride should be shattered at the beginning, and the ego should never be there. And to prove the guy's love, he should be the one to initiate the right move to prove that his intentions to the girl is pure and faultless, and never about the money or riches. ​
He should be the one to propose
to sign a Prenuptial Agreement that he can never touch or spend whatever the girl has and that all he wants is to love her and spend his life with her and nothing else. This maybe very hard to do because the guy feels humiliated and looked down in the first place, but if love is really there, what's wrong with doing it anyway? It's the right thing to do and it's the best thing to prove that his love is true. A poor guy in love with a rich girl will do everything to provide for her and will work harder than ever because he is inspired. He will not be ashamed of his humble existence and he will not be embarrassed if in the first place he is not liked or accepted by the girl's family. But because of the love he felt for her, he is determined to be successful in his own endeavors and in his financial undertakings. And even if he fails over and over, he will not stop until he succeeds. And when that time comes, he will be worthy to be accepted by the girl's family and will be welcomed with open arms. And the same is true for a poor girl who has a richer man in her life. The guy's family will treat her low, and will look down on her until such time that she proves she is not after the money at all, and her love for the guy is evident for the whole family. She should never be disappointed or frustrated in any way and should remain humble and forgiving for all the treatment she receives. Prenuptial agreement before marriage may be rude or ruthless but in a lot of ways, it is considered especially when relationships tend to get sour after many years and temptations abound for both the man and the woman. Separations or divorces happen in many marriages that is why prenuptial agreement will play a huge part in the process. There are relationships that started wrong or were not meant to be in the beginning, but somehow managed to end up in marriage. But later on in life, the marriage vows are broken, and there's nothing left to do but to end the marriage and the husband and wife go their separate ways. With the prenuptial agreement signed already and even if both the husband and wife come from rich families, there's not so much to worry about for both the couple for every property and money is already taken care of. There's nothing too hard to do when one is in love, and there's no humiliation or embarrassment in signing up a prenuptial agreement. As a matter of fact, one is doing a great job for proving to everyone around that his or her intentions are nothing but love and he or she cares about the relationship so much. When you're poor and in love with someone rich, what will stop you from signing a prenuptial agreement? Love conquers all the shame and embarrassment.
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