Loving someone who doesn't love you is a big mistake.
You will only be breaking your heart for all time to come. You're forcing yourself into a relationship that will never be. It will all be heartache and pain.
Think things through over and over again to realize everything.
It's just a one-sided type of love and something that's all trouble. You'll just be a nuisance to the one you love making him/her irritated and uncomfortable with your presence.
​It will be like chasing the wind ​or holding smoke in your hand.
The more you do, the farther away he/she will go. Every moment is torment and will crush you to pieces. You wish to be loved back but it will never come true. It will only make you worried and depressed, and sadness and pain are not far behind. But if you can't help falling in love with someone who doesn't love you back, then go on. But this time, never expect anything in return. Your love should always be unconditional. If friendship is the only best he/she offers you, accept it with gladness in your heart. You will keep him/her near you and never be far away. At least you have a friendship that you can cherish. To love and to be loved back is all we wish and pray for but not all of us are fortunate enough to have it all the time. Only one is loving and the other is never loving back as if his/her heart is made of stone that it never softens to feel the same way. But life is like that; it's not all we wish for. We can't have what we want when we desperately want it. Even when we work hard for it, our efforts remain futile. We can only hope that fate will side with us and that someone we love will love us back later on.
​And if he's/she's loving someone else and he's/she's happy,
be happy for him/her too and never get jealous. Loving is giving all the freedom in the world, setting him/her free to do everything he/she wants. Just remember that somebody else is meant for you and he/she will come at the time God chooses. Just wait with faith, hope and patience and you will never be disappointed. Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you is a big mistake and is falling for the wrong person that you thought was the one. You may think it's okay because you think things will change sooner and in your favor and he/she may learn ​to love you back in time. Well, that is a possibility but don't dwell on that for too long. Open your heart to other guys and who knows, you'll be fortunate to meet the right one for you in no time. And lastly, don't forget to ask God for His unfailing guidance.​ Maybe you can imagine yourself as a fan of a famous celebrity. Every time you see him/her, you're happy and joyful. And you can't get enough of him/her you wish to him/her every moment. But that's all there is in loving that celebrity. He/She doesn't know you personally and he/she doesn't even know you exist! But you're contented just by watching him/her on TV or movies. And you know that what you're feeling is love no less. It's not just a crush or admiration or infatuation. It's really emotion that doesn't need reciprocation. It's true feeling that doesn't need something in return.
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