Who's The Ideal One For You?

​You long for the one you call your true love or soulmate
or the one who is meant for you. 
​But you have to wait and be patient. 
He/She is not coming to you soon, but just believe he/she will come.

And every time you meet someone who makes you happy, 
makes you work harder than usual and inspires you, 
you feel he/she is the one but only to be disappointed later on 
because you are wrong and loving too soon.

The Ideal One For You

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You search high and low, far and wide
and you don't care no matter how long it takes to find the right one.​
You dream  of being together the very near future and no later
because you know you'll be the happiest then.
You can't wait for the day when the two of you meet somewhere
and both your eyes sparkle and your hearts beat faster than before
and inside out you know the one meant for you has finally arrived!

But who's your ideal one, and what are the qualities or traits you expect?
If you're searching for someone who will complement you
and make you whole, what do you look for?
Surely, you're not expecting the perfect someone
with no flaws and all because that would be impossible.

The one you're looking for must be someone like you,
someone much like your whole being.
If you're the introvert type,
you opt to stay at home than party and hang around,
then extroverts don't match you.
Or if you're the religious or prayerful type,
then atheists would be repulsive for you.
You can't be with someone who is your opposite
for the rest of your whole life, contradicting you in many ways.
The ideal one for you is always the someone
who is very much like you, who blends with you,
who will be with you all the way through, be it ups or downs,
highs or lows, and the someone who will never leave you.

If you don't find the right one, if you settle with just about anyone, 
money, riches, power and wealth will mean nothing to you. 
All those can't make you truly happy for they are just worldly,
material things that will never last for long.
Beauty and brains are ideal but when it comes to love and loving,
when it comes to harmonious relationship,
they don't seem to matter at all, at least for me.
What matters most is a humble and kind heart,
with a cheerful and happy attitude.
And at the end of each day,
you would be longing for someone who you love ​and loves you back.