Don't Demand Love, Earn It.
When people don't love you, accept it and reflect on your whole being.
There must be something in you that they don't like.
They will love you only when you deserve it.
That's why don't go around chasing after someone
and force him/her to love you back or at least show some care.
It's not a good thing for someone to love you because he/she is forced.
Let him/her love you back because he/she truly means it.
There must be something in you that makes you undeserving of his/her love.
It could be your character or your attitude and you're not aware.
It could be the way you treat people around you
and you don't know about it or you don't care at all.
The problem could lie within you and not because they are hateful.
Try to do some self-assessment or evaluation
and know all about what people are saying about you.
A lot of times, you're blinded by your own shortcomings
and fail to see the real and true you.
But people around you get to see your whole true being
by the way you behave, the way you talk, deal with them, etc.
You can't please everybody but at least you don't despise anyone.
You must treat people on the same basis, being fair and just.
Don't blame people for not loving you, for treating you the way they do.
With love, be the first to show them so you will earn it back from them.
Before you judge them, judge yourself first.
Before looking at other people, try looking at your whole being first.
You're not perfect and nobody is,
but at least take the log out of your eye
before taking the log out of anybody's eye.
Love doesn't demand payback.
It waits patiently until it is given back.
And even when it is not given back, it doesn't complain
because what it always does is unconditional -
it doesn't expect anything in return.
It is very positive and can't be tainted.
When you truly love someone, you easily set him free.
You will never set restrictions but give him all the freedom in the world.
If he doesn't love you back, you don't get mad or get even
but still go on loving.
And if ever he finds someone else to love, you will never get hurt
because you will be happy for him.
When you find him happy, you will be happy too.
That's what love is, it's not selfish and will never be.
Become better if you want love to come along your way.
Never judge anyone, and never mistreat anyone.
Remember that everything you do to your fellow or anyone
will come back to you someday in the same way.
That "someday" could happen in several days or weeks
but it could also be in the future when you least expects it.
When you show and give love, that's what you get in return.
When love is there, your life is the happiest in all the world
but once it's gone, it's also your loneliest and most painful.
So choose not to let go of love by changing your ways for good or better.
Be deserving of love, so love will come to you smoothly.
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