Don't Demand Love, Earn It.

​When people don't love you, 
accept it. 
Then reflect on your whole being.  
They will love you when you deserve it.

Don't Demand Love, Earn It.

​There must be something in you 
that makes you
undeserving of their love.
​It could be your character 
or your attitude
and you're not aware. 
It could be the way
you deal with or treat people
and you don't know it. 
The problem could lie within you 
and it's not because they are hateful. 
Before you judge them, 
judge yourself first. 
Before looking at other people, 
try looking at your whole being first. 
You're not perfect 
and nobody is, 
but at least 
take the log out of your eye 
before taking the log out 
of anybody's eye. 
With love, 
be the first to show them 
so you will earn it back from them. 

Love doesn't demand payback. 
It waits patiently 
until it is given back.
And even when it is not given back, 
it doesn't complain 
because what it always does
is unconditional - 
it doesn't expect anything in return. 
It is very positive
and can't be tainted.

When you truly love someone, 
you easily set him free. 
You will never set restrictions 
but give him all the freedom
in the world. 
If he doesn't love you back,
you don't get mad or get even 
but go on loving. 
And if ever he finds
someone else to love, 
you will never get hurt 
because you will be happy for him. 
When you find him happy, 
you will be happy too. 
That's what love is, 
it's not selfish
​and will never be.