What To Do If Brokenhearted

After months or years of being happy together,
it's all heartache and pain when relationship ends. 
It feels like dying when love's no longer around.

And it will be worse when you keep on loving 
even knowing that there's no more hope of being loved back. 
You keep wishing and praying for the good old times 
​but everything is fading away and will never come back.

Brokenhearted

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All day and all night is all sadness and misery.
You think of the love you lost all the time and never leaves your mind.
You don't know what to do, you feel restless and make you sleepless.
And it's taking a toll on your overall health and wellbeing​. 
You feel you're crushed, you're trampled on over and over. 
And you think you don't deserve all of these at all!

You can't get over it right away for it takes time.
You're very sad if not the saddest ​like it's the end of the world.
You feel like dying that very moment and you feel desperate.
Tears never stop flowing like waterfalls and you feel it goes on forever. 

But all those is natural when it comes to love and loving. 
Humans have feelings and emotions
and at times become overwhelming especially when it comes to love.
Love makes one the happiest, but when it ends,
makes one the saddest, the most miserable and in pain.
Once very inspired to work, but when love's over and gone,
prefers to lock up in the room not wanting to go out or even eat.
The world becomes a standstill like everything freezes.
Even though it's so hard to move on,
your life must go on by learning to accept that love is no longer there.
Cry it all out until you're relieved then open your heart to other people.
Make new friends, mingle and meet someone else.
Remember that keeping every heartache to yourself
is no good and you can't heal.

First,
you have family you can cry on and make you feel unabandoned.
The embrace of your parents makes you realize
everything will be fine and what you're going through
will pass you by in time forgiven and forgotten. 
You're not really alone because your family will share with your aches and pains.
Friends too can comfort you and alleviate your situation. 
Don't hesitate to talk to your best friend if you have
because all his advice will be about your wellbeing. 

Learn to let go of the one you love with all sincerity.
Don't get mad or be angry and never get even. 
Your relationship ended because it wasn't meant to be.
If it was, then it would just be a case of cooling off, 
pausing or taking a break and then resume in no time.
But it wasn't. 

Look ahead to the future where much is yet to come for you.
It's all bright and good when you move on, ready to love again.
Be optimistic and don't dwell on the past for too long.
Don't let any failed relationship make you wanna give up on life
but go on and on and don't quit. 
This life is not Heaven but makes you go through ups and downs
and all along teaches you valuable, wonderful lessons.
In the end, it makes you better and stronger
having gone through so much.

Love again for there's always life after love and loving.
There's always another love after the love you lost.
When one love goes away, another one comes around.
When one love left you crumbled in ruins,
another love will build you again and be fortified.
When love broke you to pieces before,
the next love will make you complete and whole.
Above all,
thank God for letting you experience love​ than never at all. 

True love which is meant for you will take years to arrive. 
Be patient and ask God for it all the time 
and God in His set time will give it to you when you deserve it already. 
Don't rush just to get over with the love you lost. 
Rushing will turn out to be a big mistake most of the time
and then you will regret it fully. 

Read more: 

• Never Fall In Love With Someone Who Doesn't Love You 
• Who's The Ideal One For You? 
• Don't Demand Love, Earn It. 
• Love Is Like The Sun, Moon And Stars 
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