It's an affair everyone condemns because it's wrecking home and family.
It's such a shame and embarrassment.
Your heart tells you to keep the affair, but your mind says it's wrong.
You can't deny what you're mind is telling you.
The longer it gets, the more hooked you are to the relationship
and it will then be very hard to let go and start anew.
only brings shame and disgrace on himself/herself
and loses respect from the community
and his/her reputation goes down the drain.
Even if the relationship is done in secret,
the consequences become clear:
husbands and wives spend less time together and are no longer intimate,
arguments and fights become common occurrence
and children turn disrespectful and go astray.
At its worst will be the disintegration of the family,
with husbands and wives separating or going through annulment or divorce.
If you expect some love left in the relationship, there's no more.
And it's bad karma for the 3rd party and he/she will never be happy
knowing he's/she's breaking the family apart.
He's/She's destroying lives and the very future of the children.
Imagine your father having an affair with some girl.
What would you feel? How will you deal or cope with the problem?
You won't even know where to start.
Or your mother meets a guy and falls in love.
Can you ever handle the situation? How will you react to such?
And will you ever forgive the 3rd party?
Ask yourself these questions and you won't ever let yourself being the 3rd party.
make sure he's/she's unattached to someone else and single too like you.
Don't be attracted to married people even if you think you find in them
the qualities of the one you're looking for.
Anyone born and raised by a decent, respectable parents
won't have the nerve, the guts or simply,
the heart to be involved with somebody married
because he/she knows what its like to have a whole family
living in unity and harmony.
And it's just natural for him/her to stay away
from such indecent and immoral relationship.
Anyone involved with somebody married will never be happy
no matter how hard he/she tries for as long as the affair lasts
because bad karma will always be by his/her side.
Even if he/she reaps material benefits from the relationship,
his/her conscience will always remind him/her
that everything's wrong from the very start.
If you're wishing for a bright future, living a comfortable and peaceful life,
don't entertain such a relationship.
Stay away immediately and don't look back.
Never even let it enter your mind.
Some were happy for a while until the whole thing messed up
and everything turned to chaos and disorder.
Always think you deserve a great relationship
where you are the one and only and not the number 2!