Love Is Never Blind

Love is never blind but sees the whole truth ​all the time. 
It knows what's right and wrong ​and always favors the right. 
It doesn't dim its positive light so that everything is clear all the time.

Love is truthful and it doesn't believe in lies for it doesn't lie. 
It doesn't approve wrongdoings but wants the person to change for good. 
Its purposes are clean, untainted, uncontaminated and unadulterated.

Love is never blind.

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People always say that love is blind because it fails to notice
all the bad and negative things about a person. 
It's as if its eyes are closed or has no eyes at all. 

But certainly not the case.
The truth is, love has seen them all and that the person is in denial. 
The person chose to ignore or overlook them 
because he/she thinks it can ruin the relationship. 

Like for instance:
A woman who is in love with his boyfriend
doesn't care about all the unpleasant things
people are telling her about his boyfriend
because for her the only thing that matters is her love for him.
And even though she sees and knows them all herself,
she still sticks with him all the way. 
She defends him from any criticisms by people around 
and she doesn't care if she's ridiculed for doing such. 
And even when they think she's stupid, she doesn't stop loving him. 
But all this happens while the relationship is still going strong, 
when both are very happy together. 
But when relationship turns sour, and no sooner ends, 
the world will turn upside down for both especially for the girl.
She will reveal everything bad about his lover  
including all the tiniest details possible. 
She will totally regret loving and defending him and curse him to the skies. 
And she will never stop until her anger cools down, 
or worse, until she finally ruins him
and embarrass him in front of his family and friends. 

And one thing for certain anyone notices about a girl
falling in love with the wrong guy
is her hope that he will change in time for the better
​that's why she never leaves him.
She keeps covering up all the wrongs he does
going through arguments and fights with everyone around
just to keep the relationship with him.
But the sad part is,
she's making his boyfriend worse and in time to come,
she will wish she could undo everything she's ever done.
She is like a friend who doesn't reprimand another for his wrongdoings
just to keep his friend and save the friendship.
And people like them are doing more harm than good. 

When you love someone, you will always accept weaknesses, 
you will always forgive faults and mistakes 
but you will always disapprove any wrongdoing. 
You can't bear to see him/her going the wrong way. 
The love itself will guide to the right path without going astray. 
Love will never accept lies as truth, but will hate it most. 

Continue showing and giving love if you truly love the person
and you'll see the fruit of your deed one day - 
that person will come to his senses and change for good.
But if nothing happens, if the one you love remains the same, 
then someone else is meant for you from the start. 
​You were just loving the wrong person all along. 

Read more: 

• Never Get Involved With Somebody Married 
• What To Do If Brokenhearted 
• Never Fall In Love With Someone Who Doesn't Love You 
• Who's The Ideal One For You? 
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